Has anyone ever made an agreement with their LD spouse to set aside one night a week (or more) for sex, where you both agree it will definitely happen, barring unforeseen circumstances?
Did it work for you? Did it improve your sex life? Did both parties stick to it? Did one person start to resent the other (either the LD person for feeling pressured to do it when they didn't want to, or the HD person for getting "obligation" sex)?
My LD spouse and I tried this years ago. She picked a day and time that wasn't convenient for me (due to work schedule), and then blew it off after a few weeks. Now after our most recent discussion/argument about sex, she has suggested trying it again (although she doesn't remember us trying it the first time).
Has this ever worked? Or is it likely to fail and cause more bitterness and frustration than if we hadn't tried it in the first place?
Did it work for you? Did it improve your sex life? Did both parties stick to it? Did one person start to resent the other (either the LD person for feeling pressured to do it when they didn't want to, or the HD person for getting "obligation" sex)?
My LD spouse and I tried this years ago. She picked a day and time that wasn't convenient for me (due to work schedule), and then blew it off after a few weeks. Now after our most recent discussion/argument about sex, she has suggested trying it again (although she doesn't remember us trying it the first time).
Has this ever worked? Or is it likely to fail and cause more bitterness and frustration than if we hadn't tried it in the first place?
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