Hi Ladies (and gents), but mostly ladies.
If you've been on TAM for even a short while; you are no doubt familiar with the issue of retroactive jealousy amongst husbands.
Husbands jealous of sexual relationships that their wife had BEFORE she dated him.
Let's turn it around, please.
Please be honest. Have you experienced RJ over any of your H's past sexual experiences?
I think women do experience this.
But I think we are conditioned (?) to expect that men have pasts. "A man is a man", that type of thing.
I'm 49. When I was a kid, my stepfather had porn in his sock drawer. My mom didn't have any in with her nylons.
We always saw naked women in regular movies, not naked men.
Women seem to absorb that men are very sexual; so of course he's got a past.
But I did experience RJ with my husband.
He was very honest at the beginning of our relationship.
He told me how much in love he was with his first love and how she moved on (she was MUCH older than him). That he didn't know if he could ever love anyone like he loved her.
Years later, he admitted that he had tons of stamina with her. Whereas, when he met me, he had been using porn for years and it had a major effect on him.
I don't know how long I felt jealous. To some degree, years.
I think I officially "No Longer Care". Yay:)
Well; anyone else care to share? I can't be the only woman who has had this type of experience.
If you've been on TAM for even a short while; you are no doubt familiar with the issue of retroactive jealousy amongst husbands.
Husbands jealous of sexual relationships that their wife had BEFORE she dated him.
Let's turn it around, please.
Please be honest. Have you experienced RJ over any of your H's past sexual experiences?
I think women do experience this.
But I think we are conditioned (?) to expect that men have pasts. "A man is a man", that type of thing.
I'm 49. When I was a kid, my stepfather had porn in his sock drawer. My mom didn't have any in with her nylons.
We always saw naked women in regular movies, not naked men.
Women seem to absorb that men are very sexual; so of course he's got a past.
But I did experience RJ with my husband.
He was very honest at the beginning of our relationship.
He told me how much in love he was with his first love and how she moved on (she was MUCH older than him). That he didn't know if he could ever love anyone like he loved her.
Years later, he admitted that he had tons of stamina with her. Whereas, when he met me, he had been using porn for years and it had a major effect on him.
I don't know how long I felt jealous. To some degree, years.
I think I officially "No Longer Care". Yay:)
Well; anyone else care to share? I can't be the only woman who has had this type of experience.
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