I occasionally read a little on other websites to hear different views on how infidelity impacts M's and families as well as how it should be dealt with.
I mention this because there is a guy over on Loveshack right now named CheaterforLife who just posted today saying he wanted to be a resource for the BH's out there so they can better understand what happened to there M's and how to get their WW's back.
He claims to have seduced many married women in his day, but what I found amusing was his announcement that he has benefited a lot as an OM from the fact that he is a total alpha, who is intelligent, educated, etc......and the first reply back to him included this jewel.
"i never met an alpha that had to declare it."
I laughed so hard at this...because in my life experience it is so true.
Every POSOM I ever met or knew was a total poser....they acted so alpha with WOMEN.....but every time they were faced with an angry male, their 'alpha' traits disappeared like a morning mist on a hot day.
One of my good friends was several times a POSOM in his younger years, and a couple of our close mutual friends told me about a situation that occurred during that time.....he never told me about it cause I had always told him I hoped a BH would beat his a** one day to teach him a lesson....so needless to say he didn't call me when this went down.
Apparently, a BH found out about his WW's A with my friend and called him up super angry and made some threats against him.
Now my friend, to this day, always carries himself in a c*cky and confident manner...he's almost a parody of the alpha stereotype...and yes, many women seem to eat it up.
But this situation reveals the real him.
The mutual friends told me that he got really belligerent and mouthy back with the BH, and dared him to show up and do something.....but this is where his true nature comes out.
He calls up our 2 mutual friends and says he is in an emergency and needs them to come over ASAP.
When they arrive....he answers the door (after verifying it was them by shouting) holding his shotgun....and inside his living room he has actually constructed a barricade of his recliners and his couch.
Our friends ask him what the h*ll is going on and he relates the phone call and asks them to stay over for a couple hours because he is really worried that the other guy meant it....he was SO pissed and only got even angrier after 'Mr. Alpha' popped off daring him to do something.
To his credit....my friend has changed...hasn't been A POSOM in over 15 years now that any of us are aware of.
But he still does have this annoying habit of playing the 'alpha'.
I always take pleasure in reminding him what a bullsh*t mask it is when he gets annoying with it or tries to play that crap with me....he is SO conflict avoidant when actually called out by someone.
And I have never known a POSOM who was any different.
IMO....'alpha' men do not sneak around in the shadows chasing other men's W's....they have no need to cause they can get attention from all the single women they want.
With POSOM's its all an act.
I mention this because there is a guy over on Loveshack right now named CheaterforLife who just posted today saying he wanted to be a resource for the BH's out there so they can better understand what happened to there M's and how to get their WW's back.
He claims to have seduced many married women in his day, but what I found amusing was his announcement that he has benefited a lot as an OM from the fact that he is a total alpha, who is intelligent, educated, etc......and the first reply back to him included this jewel.
"i never met an alpha that had to declare it."
I laughed so hard at this...because in my life experience it is so true.
Every POSOM I ever met or knew was a total poser....they acted so alpha with WOMEN.....but every time they were faced with an angry male, their 'alpha' traits disappeared like a morning mist on a hot day.
One of my good friends was several times a POSOM in his younger years, and a couple of our close mutual friends told me about a situation that occurred during that time.....he never told me about it cause I had always told him I hoped a BH would beat his a** one day to teach him a lesson....so needless to say he didn't call me when this went down.
Apparently, a BH found out about his WW's A with my friend and called him up super angry and made some threats against him.
Now my friend, to this day, always carries himself in a c*cky and confident manner...he's almost a parody of the alpha stereotype...and yes, many women seem to eat it up.
But this situation reveals the real him.
The mutual friends told me that he got really belligerent and mouthy back with the BH, and dared him to show up and do something.....but this is where his true nature comes out.
He calls up our 2 mutual friends and says he is in an emergency and needs them to come over ASAP.
When they arrive....he answers the door (after verifying it was them by shouting) holding his shotgun....and inside his living room he has actually constructed a barricade of his recliners and his couch.
Our friends ask him what the h*ll is going on and he relates the phone call and asks them to stay over for a couple hours because he is really worried that the other guy meant it....he was SO pissed and only got even angrier after 'Mr. Alpha' popped off daring him to do something.
To his credit....my friend has changed...hasn't been A POSOM in over 15 years now that any of us are aware of.
But he still does have this annoying habit of playing the 'alpha'.
I always take pleasure in reminding him what a bullsh*t mask it is when he gets annoying with it or tries to play that crap with me....he is SO conflict avoidant when actually called out by someone.
And I have never known a POSOM who was any different.
IMO....'alpha' men do not sneak around in the shadows chasing other men's W's....they have no need to cause they can get attention from all the single women they want.
With POSOM's its all an act.
Put the internet to work for you.
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