Okay, so... Long-short: Married for 5 years, have two little girls. Wife constantly yells at me and cusses at me in front of them. Have said if things don't change that I will leave. That's gone off and on the past two years, now.
I think (I just don't have courage!!) I've finally made the decision, but I'm clueless on what to do about this situation we have right now.
We bought a new house about a year ago that was at our max price range. We couldn't sell our starter house, so we are renting it out and the lease conveniently runs up October 31st.
My wife just got told she had to take a pay cut a month ago, it's so drastic that we really cannot afford the house we currently have. We made the decision to list it and already have a very good offer on it (phew).
So, here's my predicament. I've pretty much decided 100% that I am done with our marriage. Should I wait until after we officially sell the house to tell her? Or should I go ahead and tell her so we can tell our current renters? I have a feeling, with her lower pay, that she would want to move back into our smaller house (which I would want her to have, anyways, since she would more than likely keep the kids the majority of the time).
UGH! Help!!
I think (I just don't have courage!!) I've finally made the decision, but I'm clueless on what to do about this situation we have right now.
We bought a new house about a year ago that was at our max price range. We couldn't sell our starter house, so we are renting it out and the lease conveniently runs up October 31st.
My wife just got told she had to take a pay cut a month ago, it's so drastic that we really cannot afford the house we currently have. We made the decision to list it and already have a very good offer on it (phew).
So, here's my predicament. I've pretty much decided 100% that I am done with our marriage. Should I wait until after we officially sell the house to tell her? Or should I go ahead and tell her so we can tell our current renters? I have a feeling, with her lower pay, that she would want to move back into our smaller house (which I would want her to have, anyways, since she would more than likely keep the kids the majority of the time).
UGH! Help!!
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