My idea of full transparency is different from others here. I believe it's to be as open and honest as possible. Some feel it's okay to pour through their spouses things at will. I am still not okay with that. Is okay for a spouse to read a journal or diary anytime they want? Is it okay to open emails from family members before the spouse even has a chance to look at them?
I know a lot of people are dealing with cheating here and I can understand that part of it. But for those that are not facing those issues I can not understand why a spouse should do this.
I do not go through my wife's phone, email, etc. If I felt she was up to something or my gut was telling me something I might. But to go through her stuff for no reason other than curiosity I am just not that person.
Is there a limit to it? At what point is this not healthy, or is it healthy to say do spot checks on your wives or husbands? Again to the spouses who are dealing with cheating, you have my sympathys and I understand. This is not so much geared to you.
I know a lot of people are dealing with cheating here and I can understand that part of it. But for those that are not facing those issues I can not understand why a spouse should do this.
I do not go through my wife's phone, email, etc. If I felt she was up to something or my gut was telling me something I might. But to go through her stuff for no reason other than curiosity I am just not that person.
Is there a limit to it? At what point is this not healthy, or is it healthy to say do spot checks on your wives or husbands? Again to the spouses who are dealing with cheating, you have my sympathys and I understand. This is not so much geared to you.
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