I would like some advice from both women and men, as my emotions are all over the shop at the moment. My wife and I have been married for 23 years, although we have been together for 30 years. We are very 'in tune' with each other, and are rarely apart. Friends often say how amazing it is that we are still a couple in love after so many years. She is my world, and I am hers. For many years we have both discussed what really turns us on. Years and years ago, I mentioned that the thought of someone else having sex with her was a huge turn on for me. At first she couldn't understand this, but realised eventually that this is a fantasy that many men desire. We often 'role 'play' during sex. In particular, back in the 80's I worked with a guy who used to come out socially with his girlfriend and my future wife. I didn't know until some years later (after my friend had moved away), that my girl had the hots for him. I asked her one night who she would be happy to have sex with, and she mentioned this. It turned us both on and we have been playing with this thought ever since. She loves to talk about him and ask me to make up stories so that she can get turned on and have a good session with me. I am not jealous at all as the turn on is incredible.
To cut to the chase, I suggested she join ****buddy a few weeks ago for a laugh and to see what attention she gets. As with many women in her mid forties, she is starting to worry that she is heading down the path of old age, so any attention from males makes her feel good about herself. I am always telling her how beautiful she is, and how much I love her, but she needs to hear it from others too.
Anyway, at first she wasn't too keen on this idea, but since joining she has received numerous offers. She has singled out two coloured guys who are quite large in the trouser department. She has always had a thing about coloured guys...... well she's watched enough porn!
For the last week she and these two fella's have been flirting, sending pictures, and making arrangements to meet up. Her first meet is next Tuesday. I really didn't expect her to go along with this as much as she has, and though the thought really has brought us closer together sexually, I need reassurance from her (and anyone else not known to us!!!) that if she goes through with it, she will still love me as much, and promise me not to get hooked. Equally, she has asked me never to throw it back in her face, which I have promised.
She has even bought some sexy lingerie, wants me to shave her down below, and has made the hotel arrangements all on her own.
Now the emotions going through my head are incredible. I have never had so much going on in my brain. I am starting to think of worse case scenarios however. I feel that If I turn around now and say no, she will be angry with me for putting her up to it in the first place. But how was I to know she would be so enthusiastic?
The advice I want, is does anyone think If we go through with this it will hurt us? Or do you think we will end up closer than ever before?
I need you all to know that my wife has been completely honest and transparent so far. She shows and tells me everything that has been going on between her and these guys. She is and has always been the most honest woman on the planet, which is why I am hoping I have nothing to fear.
Help!!
To cut to the chase, I suggested she join ****buddy a few weeks ago for a laugh and to see what attention she gets. As with many women in her mid forties, she is starting to worry that she is heading down the path of old age, so any attention from males makes her feel good about herself. I am always telling her how beautiful she is, and how much I love her, but she needs to hear it from others too.
Anyway, at first she wasn't too keen on this idea, but since joining she has received numerous offers. She has singled out two coloured guys who are quite large in the trouser department. She has always had a thing about coloured guys...... well she's watched enough porn!
For the last week she and these two fella's have been flirting, sending pictures, and making arrangements to meet up. Her first meet is next Tuesday. I really didn't expect her to go along with this as much as she has, and though the thought really has brought us closer together sexually, I need reassurance from her (and anyone else not known to us!!!) that if she goes through with it, she will still love me as much, and promise me not to get hooked. Equally, she has asked me never to throw it back in her face, which I have promised.
She has even bought some sexy lingerie, wants me to shave her down below, and has made the hotel arrangements all on her own.
Now the emotions going through my head are incredible. I have never had so much going on in my brain. I am starting to think of worse case scenarios however. I feel that If I turn around now and say no, she will be angry with me for putting her up to it in the first place. But how was I to know she would be so enthusiastic?
The advice I want, is does anyone think If we go through with this it will hurt us? Or do you think we will end up closer than ever before?
I need you all to know that my wife has been completely honest and transparent so far. She shows and tells me everything that has been going on between her and these guys. She is and has always been the most honest woman on the planet, which is why I am hoping I have nothing to fear.
Help!!
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