I was dating this guy for a few months and he was starting to really pressure me to have sex. I was really uncomfortable and I didn't like the way he was treating me. So I ended it with him and told him that I wanted to save my virginity for something long-lasting and serious. Also, he's going to be going abroad for a year in several months, so our relationship would not have lasted long. I did not think it would be worth bringing sex into the relationship, which would be serious.
I ended the relationship due to the fact that I wasn't willing to have sex. He wasn't happy and found it difficult.
But here's the funny thing, I saw that he had texted one of his friends, and he told her: 'I'm actually really happy she said no. It shows that she respects herself enough to not let herself be used for sex.'
When he saw that I saw that text, he was really embarrassed and tried to cover it up but it was too late.
I'm obviously glad, but I find it odd that he would pressure me so much, if he knew it wouldn't be good for me. Can someone explain?
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