I have to ask if I am too sensitive or if this is abnormal.
My h and I are having major problems. He is trying to appease me...as he knows we are headed to divorce.
It was my bday. He never does anything major for me. Ever.
This year...I found out that he emailed my aunt (who never travels and lives across country) and asked her to come to surprise me for my BDAY. However, he knew I was already planning to go see HER during that time.
She called me and was really confused as to why he would do this. He then told me that my aunt is difficult and she should be better to me...and come to see ME. I blew it off.
Then, I found out that 4 days before my bday he TEXTED people in our city...former coworkers I haven't seen or talked to in FOUR years...and asked them to come over to our house for my bday.
My son actually spilled the beans and told me that he was planning a party. He KNOWS I don't like parties or surprises like that...as I'm kind of shy.
So I asked him about it and he proceeded to tell me that he didn't get a lot of responses and only TWO people agreed to come by... and then he said ..."you know your old friend ____ ...they didn't even respond...don't you think that's weird? What's up with that? What did you do to them?"
I was really hurt and I asked him to tell the TWO people who I barely know that I already had a conflict that he didn't know about and it would have to cancel. He agreed...
So for my birthday ...he and our son got me 2 pair of socks and a pair of sweat pants. He did book me a massage though...
I just feel so sad about that ...and emotionally beat up.
How would you feel? Am I overreacting?
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My h and I are having major problems. He is trying to appease me...as he knows we are headed to divorce.
It was my bday. He never does anything major for me. Ever.
This year...I found out that he emailed my aunt (who never travels and lives across country) and asked her to come to surprise me for my BDAY. However, he knew I was already planning to go see HER during that time.
She called me and was really confused as to why he would do this. He then told me that my aunt is difficult and she should be better to me...and come to see ME. I blew it off.
Then, I found out that 4 days before my bday he TEXTED people in our city...former coworkers I haven't seen or talked to in FOUR years...and asked them to come over to our house for my bday.
My son actually spilled the beans and told me that he was planning a party. He KNOWS I don't like parties or surprises like that...as I'm kind of shy.
So I asked him about it and he proceeded to tell me that he didn't get a lot of responses and only TWO people agreed to come by... and then he said ..."you know your old friend ____ ...they didn't even respond...don't you think that's weird? What's up with that? What did you do to them?"
I was really hurt and I asked him to tell the TWO people who I barely know that I already had a conflict that he didn't know about and it would have to cancel. He agreed...
So for my birthday ...he and our son got me 2 pair of socks and a pair of sweat pants. He did book me a massage though...
I just feel so sad about that ...and emotionally beat up.
How would you feel? Am I overreacting?
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