Dumb Question that needs to be asked - Do people talk about being hit on or setup ?

Very simple question. I'm pretty sure the answer is a resounding NO. I am talking about being in a serious monogamous relationship.

Is it okay for your significant other to talk about being set up/being introduced ( or attempted to be introduced ) to other people and being hit on by other people.

Some examples for clarity..

My client asked if I would be interested in meeting a friend of theirs that has a business and lots of money.

Some man came up to my car and asked me out.


Imagine if you will that the first example is almost a common event. So you know as the S.O. that your partner is at least being introduced or looking to be introduced to someone else every other month possibly by several people. So you're looking at potentially at least 1 a month.

I am well aware that announcing such a thing is clearly an insecurity within yourself. So in turn you're projecting your insecurity onto your S.O... Nutshell, I am worried about you leaving me so I will tell you I can leave you too.

But all of that aside..

Basically is it common for men and women in a serious relationship to tell each other about these sort of things on a regular or semi regular basis ?

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