My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half and have had an up and down but mostly happy relationship. We have been mostly long distance, but we are from the same town, including a year of very long distance. Next year I'm hoping to be accepted into a graduate school in the USA and I could be away for up to 8 years. We could find ways to work around this but obviously it's not ideal. One of the problems is that I am very driven and whilst my boyfriend is a very intelligent person with many skills and interests he doesn't seen to have a future in mind and is still living with his parents which is something I worry will continue indefinitely. He also doesn't seem very keen on spending much time with me lately (we are currently living in the same town), often cancels plans, doesn't call and is considering (voluntarily) working on my birthday.
I am very close to him and we get on so well that it makes me sad to think of not having him in my life, but I'm wondering if perhaps it's better to end things, especially considering our very different goals?
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