DH and I are trying to get our sex life back on track after a serious bout of ED, refusal and marital issues and marital counseling. Lately it has been 2-4 times per week depending on his work schedule.
One thing that truly, truly bothers me is that he has zero interest in trying anything new in bed. He also has no interest whether I wear lingerie or not. After 27 years of marriage, we barely started using a vibrator.
Since we are going away for his birthday, I was looking at lingerie online today. I showed him one I wanted to buy and his reply was "what do you want that for?" I was so frustrated and began to cry. I told him nothing interests him but I bet if it were on somebody else it would. I know I shouldn't have said that, but this is an ego and self-esteem killer. I told him most men would grt excited and want their wives in something like that.
I have recently lost 20 lbs and am very attractive. As a matter of fact, he gets jealous when he thinks other men are paying attention. He does get turned on for sex so not sure what is wrong.
Men? Any advice or ideas?
One thing that truly, truly bothers me is that he has zero interest in trying anything new in bed. He also has no interest whether I wear lingerie or not. After 27 years of marriage, we barely started using a vibrator.
Since we are going away for his birthday, I was looking at lingerie online today. I showed him one I wanted to buy and his reply was "what do you want that for?" I was so frustrated and began to cry. I told him nothing interests him but I bet if it were on somebody else it would. I know I shouldn't have said that, but this is an ego and self-esteem killer. I told him most men would grt excited and want their wives in something like that.
I have recently lost 20 lbs and am very attractive. As a matter of fact, he gets jealous when he thinks other men are paying attention. He does get turned on for sex so not sure what is wrong.
Men? Any advice or ideas?
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