Married for a while now but 9 times out of ten I always initiate sex. I can count the few times my husband has initiated sex so it makes me feel as though i am the one who wants it all the time.
Initially i thought he was not interested even after showering/brushing teeth before bed and wearing nice lingerie and shaving down there. Sometimes i am frustrated that I dont even bother showering before bed as i know nothing will happen unless I make the move.
I think he has some issues because we only ever had sex 3 times in one night on the wedding night. So far last 9 years of marriage, I have settled for him coming once for the night and thats it. He just cant get aroused again in the same night. We do it on average twice a week if everything is going well.
I think he must be shy too because we hardly have sex in daytime. If we do he pulls over the covers and theres no eye contact. At night its always with lights off. He is a good looking attractive man with just a bit of belly but still turns me on just looking at him naked.
I also bought a teeny tiny book to see if we could try new stuff / positions but he has never read it. I am open to try new things. I used to give him oral when we were newly weds but I am not motivated to do it in the current situation.
So i wonder does he view sex as dirty because he wont initiate and always wants to do it in the dark or under covers?? After being married for so long... Should i be having these issues?
Initially i thought he was not interested even after showering/brushing teeth before bed and wearing nice lingerie and shaving down there. Sometimes i am frustrated that I dont even bother showering before bed as i know nothing will happen unless I make the move.
I think he has some issues because we only ever had sex 3 times in one night on the wedding night. So far last 9 years of marriage, I have settled for him coming once for the night and thats it. He just cant get aroused again in the same night. We do it on average twice a week if everything is going well.
I think he must be shy too because we hardly have sex in daytime. If we do he pulls over the covers and theres no eye contact. At night its always with lights off. He is a good looking attractive man with just a bit of belly but still turns me on just looking at him naked.
I also bought a teeny tiny book to see if we could try new stuff / positions but he has never read it. I am open to try new things. I used to give him oral when we were newly weds but I am not motivated to do it in the current situation.
So i wonder does he view sex as dirty because he wont initiate and always wants to do it in the dark or under covers?? After being married for so long... Should i be having these issues?
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