Let me give you some background. About 5 years ago my wife decided she "couldn't do this anymore" and dumped our then 3 year old daughter with a neighbor and left the state. No forwarding address etc. Four months later we reconciled but the information i learned during that process is still troubling me. Here is a synopsis of what happened the months before and during her "break".
She flew him to town and stayed in a hotel when she was suppose to be at her sisters. Stayed in a hotel with him the first week she was in his area (out of state). She sent him numerous adult pictures and videos of herself while still at our marital home. She moved in with him using money from selling her engagement ring and anniversary jewelry. She emptied our joint bank accounts and sold her car to fund the rent and their lifestyle (gambling, football games, dinners, gifts, etc). When she finally came back to visit our daughter she would talk to him and tell him she loved him. There is more that is enough for now
She swears she did not love him (she just said it at the time) and they never had intercourse, "just hooked up". The facts to me don't support that and that feeling of her never telling me the complete truth still causes nightmares. So my question is do I am seem crazy for this still bothering me?
She flew him to town and stayed in a hotel when she was suppose to be at her sisters. Stayed in a hotel with him the first week she was in his area (out of state). She sent him numerous adult pictures and videos of herself while still at our marital home. She moved in with him using money from selling her engagement ring and anniversary jewelry. She emptied our joint bank accounts and sold her car to fund the rent and their lifestyle (gambling, football games, dinners, gifts, etc). When she finally came back to visit our daughter she would talk to him and tell him she loved him. There is more that is enough for now
She swears she did not love him (she just said it at the time) and they never had intercourse, "just hooked up". The facts to me don't support that and that feeling of her never telling me the complete truth still causes nightmares. So my question is do I am seem crazy for this still bothering me?
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