Does anyone else here feel a social pressure to be something they're not? Since I got with my ex girlfriend over a year ago (and it lasted a year) I started to feel a social pressure whilst hanging with her and her friends, to be more fun, giddy, exciting etc... and over that year to some degree I did loosen up. I'd always been a very serious person before this, I took life very seriously. Anyway, we split up, but now my new group of friends I feel have started to exhibit the same thing towards me, not all of them but still I feel a pressure to be relaxed, expressionate etc. I met a few new people yesterday who'm were very laid back and giddy and fun. We went clubbing, which I find a bit boring but Ill do it and milk it for all the fun I can get out of it if I go, so I was on the dance floor, sort of half dancing and one of my friends/the new people in the group said ''you need to chill, you look so serious, aren't you going to dance?''... I wasn't even awa re I was still looking serious.
Anyway, without going on and on about it, does anyone else get this?
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