I am wondering if my wife is seeing someone else.
Things have changed over the last 12 months. My wife is wanting to go out more and more with her friends over last 12 months. She hardly ever went out in the past. She is now averaging 1 or 2 times a week going out with her girlfriends to lunch, movies, girls night outs, coffee, etc etc. Our time/nights out together has suffered due to this
She lost a bit of weight about 6 months ago and feels good about herself which is great. She is more confident and seems happier which again is great.
We have drifted apart a little since the kids were born which I think most couples do as you spend more time with your kids than each other. Our sex life has also suffered, but I guess isn't to bad.
I chatted with her a few weeks ago and asked her what has changed and she said she needed time away from our 2 year old. He is demanding and at times hard to look after. I understand this, but it is getting more and more to the point where things are out of character for her. e.g - she is probably the most organised person I know. She needed to go up to the shops the other night as she forgot to buy eggs for the kids at Easter. Something that should take 30 minutes took about 80 mins?
She never lets me see her phone and has a facebook account where some of her new friends I don't even know? She is always on her phone!
Anyway, I am not sure if I am just paranoid or there is something going on? I understand people need their own time but she is changing and things are out of character?
I need advice on whether she could be cheating or the signs of cheating. Need your help!
Paul
Things have changed over the last 12 months. My wife is wanting to go out more and more with her friends over last 12 months. She hardly ever went out in the past. She is now averaging 1 or 2 times a week going out with her girlfriends to lunch, movies, girls night outs, coffee, etc etc. Our time/nights out together has suffered due to this
She lost a bit of weight about 6 months ago and feels good about herself which is great. She is more confident and seems happier which again is great.
We have drifted apart a little since the kids were born which I think most couples do as you spend more time with your kids than each other. Our sex life has also suffered, but I guess isn't to bad.
I chatted with her a few weeks ago and asked her what has changed and she said she needed time away from our 2 year old. He is demanding and at times hard to look after. I understand this, but it is getting more and more to the point where things are out of character for her. e.g - she is probably the most organised person I know. She needed to go up to the shops the other night as she forgot to buy eggs for the kids at Easter. Something that should take 30 minutes took about 80 mins?
She never lets me see her phone and has a facebook account where some of her new friends I don't even know? She is always on her phone!
Anyway, I am not sure if I am just paranoid or there is something going on? I understand people need their own time but she is changing and things are out of character?
I need advice on whether she could be cheating or the signs of cheating. Need your help!
Paul
Put the internet to work for you.
No comments:
Post a Comment