Hi everyone,
I need advice. Basically I have never met my real Father. I have a stepdad who I have called Dad since I was 3 and I do look at him as my Father and that will never change. My stepdad is my real Dad to me, I know all about him, even his family history and I apply it to me even though I shouldn't as we're not related in the slightest. My stepdad's Mum and Dad are Scottish and I will even say I'm half Scottish, when I'm not?
I started recently looking for my real Dad and I have found him on Facebook. I want to send him a message but I don't really know how to word it or what to say.
Looking through his Facebook he has 4 daughters, you know you can put people as a family member, well there's 4 girls with the same last name as his listed as his Daughters and he and they all live in south Africa.
I don't honestly know what I want from him, it's not money or a relationship, I just want to shock him I suppose? I want to be like I'm your Daughter and then treat him how he treated me (completely ignore him and act like he doesn't exist). I want to punish him.
Is this wrong of me? It bothers me a lot.
I need advice. Basically I have never met my real Father. I have a stepdad who I have called Dad since I was 3 and I do look at him as my Father and that will never change. My stepdad is my real Dad to me, I know all about him, even his family history and I apply it to me even though I shouldn't as we're not related in the slightest. My stepdad's Mum and Dad are Scottish and I will even say I'm half Scottish, when I'm not?
I started recently looking for my real Dad and I have found him on Facebook. I want to send him a message but I don't really know how to word it or what to say.
Looking through his Facebook he has 4 daughters, you know you can put people as a family member, well there's 4 girls with the same last name as his listed as his Daughters and he and they all live in south Africa.
I don't honestly know what I want from him, it's not money or a relationship, I just want to shock him I suppose? I want to be like I'm your Daughter and then treat him how he treated me (completely ignore him and act like he doesn't exist). I want to punish him.
Is this wrong of me? It bothers me a lot.
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