I've been married for almost a year now, I am in the mid 40's; I just discovered that my husband like a year before we meet he was having sex with different guys, he spent a year doing that but also he was having sex with girls.
I think, I am not sure that he was seen this guys when we were dating, I don't have proof of it. I discovered this by accident, he was not intending to tell me anything about it. I am very confused because he keeps telling me that he didn't have anything to do with all of this men but I know he did, he sent his pictures and his phone number to all of them that means he was very interesting to get together with them. He was contacting this guys on craiglist and the way he talked to them (nasty and showed experience) showed that he was very interesting in them and he was getting turn on with all of them.
When we got married he wanted to change his phone number in hurry and he gave me an excuse that I never believe. I love him so much but since the day I knew this I changed, I know I still love him but I can't get close to him as I did before. I don't want to hurt him but I am hurt.
I am very hurt by this, I don't know what to do, he say he is not gay but I don't believe it, If he is not gay why he had sex with guys?. I need help, I don't know what to do with the situation.
He is the best man in the word, he take care of me, we had a super nice amazing relationship that got broken from my side since the day I did read all those emails that he exchanged with those guys on craiglist. I cry every day, I am depress, super sad, disappoint, I thought he was the perfect man, the man of my dreams, the one I dreamed about in my whole life and I was wrong, I can't take this situation but I don't want to be unfair with him. I don't know what to do. Would you help me? I need help. I just need a professional advice, I will appreciate any advice from you.
I think, I am not sure that he was seen this guys when we were dating, I don't have proof of it. I discovered this by accident, he was not intending to tell me anything about it. I am very confused because he keeps telling me that he didn't have anything to do with all of this men but I know he did, he sent his pictures and his phone number to all of them that means he was very interesting to get together with them. He was contacting this guys on craiglist and the way he talked to them (nasty and showed experience) showed that he was very interesting in them and he was getting turn on with all of them.
When we got married he wanted to change his phone number in hurry and he gave me an excuse that I never believe. I love him so much but since the day I knew this I changed, I know I still love him but I can't get close to him as I did before. I don't want to hurt him but I am hurt.
I am very hurt by this, I don't know what to do, he say he is not gay but I don't believe it, If he is not gay why he had sex with guys?. I need help, I don't know what to do with the situation.
He is the best man in the word, he take care of me, we had a super nice amazing relationship that got broken from my side since the day I did read all those emails that he exchanged with those guys on craiglist. I cry every day, I am depress, super sad, disappoint, I thought he was the perfect man, the man of my dreams, the one I dreamed about in my whole life and I was wrong, I can't take this situation but I don't want to be unfair with him. I don't know what to do. Would you help me? I need help. I just need a professional advice, I will appreciate any advice from you.
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