"Nice Guy" dilemma-- Please name one specific thing I can do

to make my wife want me. We have a good marriage but over 7 1/2 years I think I have grown from the interesting wanderer to the domesticated Beta, and that is apperently not turning her on. I have read some of the books, forume, blogs, etc, but would love to know of SPECIFIC thing to say or do. TIA.

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