Long distance Husband Woes

Hi folk,s this is my first post so bare with me! Weve only been married 9 months, have 4 kids (3 pre-teens and a four yr old) and up until a few months ago, neither of us was working. I was full-time mum while he was looking for work but just hadnt found any. Now, I have a full-time office job and he works in another city, too far to come home every day. He's been home once since starting this job three months ago, I've been up twice. While being together si great, Im finding being apart awful. He never replies to texts or messages as he says he hates texting and yet rarely calls. it's all me. He is lonely up there, doesn't go out, has no new friends to socialise with. When i push him for contact he gets annoyed and says I'm nagging and too needy. This IS such a big change for us, but Im' crumbling inside because I miss him so much and get so little by way of comfort. I had a lovely time when we were together, like a date but leaving was horrendous. To make matters worse we've had sex issues too, he's just not interested, says it's his problem and thats it. We've had sex once in 7 months. He has very niche tastes sexually, which i tried to indulge, and during that time, he was really sexual and it it was very frequent. When I couldnt go on as it's just not for me, our sex-life died. I feel so low right now can cant stop cryin g when I'm alone. I have no idea how long I can keep doing this and iv'e even begged him to quit and come home. I've stopped texting and messaging and havent called him because im' backing right off to give him head-space. I suppose this is just a rant, but has anyone else been through this and came out the other side? We do want to all be together eventually, but god knows when that will be.

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