How to tell my boyfriend to 'man up!'?

Hello! :) There's always something wrong with my boyfriend! If he's not moaning about tired, he's moaning about having a headache or feeling sick ad it seems to be every day. I can't even remember a day where he's not complained. At first I was tolerant and try to be understanding because surely it's not his fault if he's ill, but nowadays I am starting to think he's a hypochondriac. I asked him: 'are you over thinking things?' but he said 'no, the pain is physical'. However, I think if you think about it too much you can make yourself physically feel ill. He's been to the doctors and had blood tests and examinations and the results have shown nothing. :eek: Anyway, he's had to miss loads of events which we organised and I feel like he's constantly letting me down. How can I be more tolerant or do you think it's time for me to tell him to man up?

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