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OK.....some have commented that there is concern with my relationship....and I wouldn't be on this site if there wasn't. I have been told I am conservative, sexually conservative, old fashioned, and judgmental. I would like to share an evening with my partner.,,,,this took place some time ago....but it still bothers me. We have talked about it. My partner apologized....so I feel he must think he did something inappropriate. We met at a local pub one night....He was at the bar with his computer. I asked what was up with the computer? He responded that he was "playing mind games" with Erin. She was a waitress at the bar (her night off). She sat across the bar with her phone. I will add that Erin is extremely hot (His description to me).....available.....25....my partner and I are both early 60's......we don't look it.....stay fit.......etc. So the night began with the two of them communicating.......not sure what they said to each other....but it brought on lots of smiles and laughter. At one point I went to the bathroom.....when I returned they were sitting very close.....talking......I went right over there and stoood beside them.....My partner said..."What do you want?" I said nothing and walked off. Needless to say it was a very cold night. MY biggest regret is that I didn't walk out on him that night....but he said once that you never solve a problem by walking away. Ladies.....h ow would you handle this? I wouldn't mind some male input as well.

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