should mother - in - law supports my husband to have double life get pict of my baby

hi, everybody: my husband's verbal abuse of accusing me / hostile harassing me makes me blind 5-20 minutes till he stops. Professional suggests he has BPD. 1. my husband always has headache or sth. else to do when i want him to be fathe to take care of the 3 baby girls he has with me, to spend time with them. Not even help me on these 3 girls he has with me when my high blood presure is 300/200. but, 2. for 6 years in our marriage, in a frequent and constant base, he never has headache or anything else to do, when his ex asks him to help on his 4 boys he has with her, he runs faster than a dog to help his ex on their boys. 3. and pls. be noted that he has his boys visit him by divorce decreee half year out of one year. the help he has offered to his ex on their boys mentioned in item 2 is a plus beside half year out of one year he has them. 4. July 4th, 2013, his EX 's birthday, he agreed to his ex again to take care of these boys he has with him, to enable her to have H....appy Birthday, which ruin my Independent Day.... 5. july 5thm, he cheated his company to get sick off to see his boys base game, but he could not take day off on July 6th, to be around of one the girls birthday he has with me. and he never around for these girls birthday, not even their 1st year birthday, not even when they were in hospital, but he never misses any birthday of his boys, in 12 years, when they are 12 years old. 6. his mother called on my girl's birthday, i told his mom that i am very disappointed that her son hurt my interest to satisfy his EX' interest by helping her out on Independent day/ her birhtday. 7. his mother said: it's hard for my son to maintain 2 families, to satisfy TWO woman's interest. 8. i take what his mother said in Item 7 as that she knows and she supports her son to have a double life with his EX. I have some other evidence he is having double life with his EX, and I will post it in other post. 9. i took my girls to Portrait for their sister's one year's birthday. 10. She asked to have link of these portrait but I don't want to give to her because I don't think she cares my marriage that i have with her son, and i don't think she cares the girls i have with her son, neither, with what she said in Item 7. 11. what do u guy would do if u would be me thanks

Put the internet to work for you. via Personal Recipe 2629979