| I'm a female, and joined POF a while ago (using my real photo etc) to see how it went. I'm confused about my sexuality, although would never actually be with a girl in a romantic sense because my family would find it really weird. Anyway, I found the guys who would message me on there to be really sleazy and gross, so I quickly deleted it. I wanted to see what it was like from the other perspective, out of curiosity, so created a fake male profile. Only really had one proper message, but things have got out of hand since. I keep trying to keep the conversation friendly, and keep stressing that "I" have too many 'issues' for a relationship...but she's very sweet and keeps reassuring the person I'm pretending to be that it's fine and she'll be patient. I've been using her to make myself feel better, and I realised that today. I need to stop it now because it will end badly if I don't, but she seems to contact my daily and has grown an attachment so I want to try and do it in a way that won't really hurt her. Telling her the truth would just embarrass her massively, I would feel the same if I found out a similar thing if I was totally straight. Is there anything I could say? I never started this to hurt someone and make them like me, I didn't even think that was possible over the internet! Any advice would be great, I need to stop it today. | |||
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