| Hello all, Reading through many of these stories of infidelity, I notice a very common theme in many of them...particularly when the wayward spouse is the woman. She was going through a "mid-life crisis". This phenomenom seems to hit women in the age group between 35 to 45 years of age. Many of the cheating wives AND their betrayed husbands accept that this is an acceptable reason for the cheating to begin. I think this is complete baloney and is just another form of "rug sweeping". To justify their behavior of unfaithfulness using this excuse is, in IMO, totally unacceptable. For everyone, changes in your life are something we all have to experience throughout our lives, from the moment you are born, until the day you leave this earth. We all go through all kinds of changes, going to school, developing into a teeenager, reaching adulthood, job changes, family changes, health changes, deaths of friends and family, and many other changes throughout your life. From an early age, people experience change, and learn how to cope with new circumstances. This is part of the maturing process. HOW you deal with these changes defines what kind of person you are. In the end, you really started cheating because you were selfish, didn't think of your betrayed spouse and children, in fact, had total disregard for their happiness and security, and pretty much showed that you simply threw everything away for a few moments of thrills. You have major character flaws. Why not just own up to this fact instead of trying to excuse your behavior by claiming "mid-life crisis"? Get real! Grow up! | |||
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