Had sex with a guy and LIED about being a virgin - feel so guilty!!

basically i have been ready to have sex for a while, have done pretty much everything aside from sex etc. but i recently moved to a new place, really hard to meet people and then when i did start going out the only place i'd meet guys is in clubs/bars.. and they usually go about picking up girls all wrong. there was one guy i would have gone there with here but he didn't have a condom. it is not lack of offers (i have boobs and vagina, of course this isn't an issue) but i am just very picky and don't like guys who come on too strong, which most of them do. so i met this guy the other day and anyway i ended up going to his house with some friends and i slept in his bed and we kissed, he tried the sex but i refused. i did like him though. knew there'd be nothing serious from it because i move back home forever in 1 month and he was only here on a 2 week holiday which is shortly ending. i do not want serious and he said he doesn't. anyway long story short i met up with him the other day. we had sex, i had told him i wasn't a virgin (because due to a past sexual experience a few months ago i didn't really know what to class myself as and thought saying no there'd be less pressure)... then due to a few awkward moments during the act (and him asking me twice if i was a virgin and me saying no) i kind of admitted it after we had sex. he was really nice about it when i explained to him about my sexual history... but i had seen panic on his face before during the awkward moments and when he asked me if i were a virgin. in general he gave me the impression it was a pretty bad experience for him, though i had fun and don't regret it... i think i did give the impression i blamed him for the awkwardness though and i wasn't having fun. i never apologised for "lying" though and i feel kind of ... rapey? like maybe if he knew, he wouldn't have slept with me and i didn't give him the whole truth to deal with. i also feel now he thinks i have all this emotion about him because he was technically my first. now we are texting occasionally but he is really distant and pretty uninterested in the texts. i get that he doesn't want serious but firstly i want to have sex with him again because it was fun and secondly i do feel really guilty so would like to apologise and kind of reassure him... shall i do it by text? i do feel awful.

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