Telling people the reason for divorce-- affair!

My spouse is having an E/P affair and has refused to stop, so I am going through with the divorce. My question: do I tell people the real reason for the divorce? I kind of have to tell people because it involves moving, finding a new job, etc. Things are complicated because the nature of the affair has the potential to damage my spouse's professional reputation (professional ethics). Also, if my spouse is going to live with the OW, people will figure it out anyway. Do I just say we're divorcing and it wasn't my choice? I just don't want people thinking it was a mutual decision, but I also don't think it's everyone's business. Do I take the high road and let the gossip mill do the dirty work? Posted via Mobile Device

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