Should I talk to her?

My STBX and I have seperated with minimal contact either then co-parenting and no reconciliation plans for the last 3 months. She's evidently become completely cold, and I didn't push it. I needed the time anyway, and I guess she realised she needed it too. But sometimes I wonder what has been going on for the last 3 months, if she went to counselling, or if she's still mad at me, or whatever. She seems to be in a bad way since V-day. We were best friends once, then everything went to hell, I wonder if we should clear the air. Or does that make me seem weak/pathetic/etc to initiate a catchup with my STBX? We have about 7 months to go before we can legally divorce. Besides, I'm having difficulty moving on, if I learn that she has already moved on it would make things easier. Too many what ifs in my head... so should I talk to her?

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