Is my husband a moron? PORN

I have never watched porn with hubby in the 18yrs we been marriage. I have been one of those loathing wives hating every second of his viewing habits and wondering why I arent enough. (side note: we have done just about everything a cpl can do in bed. So it isnt a lack of sex or different things to why he has a huge viewing habit of porn). He has told me over the course of our 18yrs he would be so happy if we watched it together. That when he views it he always places me in the porn somehow. (I dont believe it either). He swears its true. So a few weeks ago I say hubby you tell me all the time when you view porn that I never leave your mind and you think how hot it would be if I was doing what your watching. That ultimately I am your pornstar. That you want to experience everything together sexually. He says Yes that is true. I say ok hubby then lets make porn our thing. I will watch porn with you. This is something we can do toge ther (not alone). In my mind as I am saying this I am thinking we can do this a few times a week. Before I can say that. He says ok dear we will watch porn every Friday night together. Ok Now you have the background. So today I come home from work and his buddy is here. They are playing xbox. I pull hubby into the bed room and say hey I think we should have porn night tonight. I think I might be coming down with something. I would hate for you to miss Friday if I am sick. He says Coool sounds good. I tell him so lets not have your buddy stay too late (his buddy doesnt take a hint its late you need to leave at all). I also remind him lets make sure wifee is in a good mood. That keeping wifee happy equals a great porn night. Since this is new to me and I still feel slightly uncomfortable with porn. My mood plays a big part how I do during our viewing and sex while watching it. He goes back out and plays a few more rounds of xbox. I decide before I make dinner I will get in the bath. When I get out he comes in and says hey we leaving we going to my buddies house. He back in a few hours. I start feeling pissy. He can see my face change. He like whats the attitude for? I say I dont have one. He says yes I can see it. So I proceed to tell him. Your buddies been here since 2pm. I been home maybe an hour and most that time you were playing xbox and I was in the bath. Maybe I like some time with you. If you go down there and come back it will almost be my bedtime (I work and he doesnt, so he stays up alot later than I). He's like it's only a few hours and I be back before our daughter goes to bed so there will be plenty of time for my shower and dinner before we have our private time (sex/porn time). My mood is growing more of WTF?!? I say fine whatever. Go, see you at 7pm. He cops an slight attitude and leaves. My question is: IS he an idiot or a moron? You have a wife that just recently started watching porn and has came home and said PORN night, keep me happy. Then you decide to ditch out on her until about an hour before its time to have sex and then she is off to bed. I am SOOO very pissed and upset. Now I am not in the mood for anything sexual. I want to say hey hon I changed my mind. Lets play cards or watch a movie. Then I am going to bed. But that will just start a HUGE who is more pissed or right contest. Any opinions how to defuse the situation?

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