| I need some advice on how to deal with my spouse. He has been diagnosed with bipolar disorder(not the kind where they think they are other people) but just where he will have flip outs and mood changes out of no where. It seems like nothing I do or say us right during these times and he even brings up that all my friends tell him they don't like me or things about me. A simple teasing joke ( who others as In friends) find funny, are not so much and rude in his eyes. On top of that I am accused of saying what he wants to hear to passify him as I do so to just to not ruffle the feathers. These things are subjects that have been discussed over time that he knows I do not like but I eventually fold after so long. When in a fight or conflict with each other and trying to talk it out I can't get a single sentAnce out without some rebutle on his behalf. I feel my voice is never heard and when I say so he says that I try to make everything about me. That I always focus On my problems not his. It's easier to walk away and let him "cool off" and get back to normal most times. But I have had him pour a half empty beer over my head because I wouldn't talk to him as he was lecturing me at 6 am. I don't know how to deal with this and he refused to take medication. It's so hard living with anyone with this problem as I have one myself. I am 30 and diagnosed with severe rhuematoid arthrits. I have problems day to day and he makes me feel guilty that I have it and I feel like a burden on him and worry that he will not want to have to take care of me one day. Please help with any advice! I'm lost lonely and sad:( | |||
| | |||
| | |||
|
No comments:
Post a Comment