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WTF do I say to the OM if anything. We are bound to meet

I will be divorce soon enough. I am pretty sure my wife will be moving in with the OM and at least my8 year old son. The 13 year old is staying with me ATM.

The OM basically held my STBXW hand through everything, The Fake R, giving her a secret phone, getting her another secret phone when I found the first ( didn't find the 2nd ).. Just everything he could to make me feel pain. She of course tortured me as well for some crazy reason.

So you understand this has been less then friendly on her part or his part no matter how polite I tried to be or asked her to explain to me why she would be upset with me after doing all she did to ME.

So nonetheless I know we will meet eventually.

The guy is 5'1" or 5'2" with a big gap in his front teeth. I'm 6'3" with full set of teeth.
He has been arrested and has a criminal background ( I'm a cop ).
He is about 53 years old, 8 years older then me.
I can retire today and still bring home more money not working then he does. Matter of fact my wife ( because of me putting her through school ) makes more money per hour then he does.

End result I can think of a million things I can tell him. But I'm also thinking the best thing to do is just not talk to him and cut him off if he tries to say something to me. To make it clear there is nothing he can say or that anything he says to me is worth listening to.

Basically give him the 180 treatment. Let them know they just don't matter in my life.

Just figure I know many here had to deal with this before me and could give me some input and future advice.

As always thanks TAM For listening to me gripe, complain, whine and cry...




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