Wife with mental issues please help

Hi I am new here and have been looking for a place like this to talk to people that understand my problem. My wife and I are in low 30s and got married in 06 and I love her to death always have. I know she loves me too but she has lots of mental issuses that make the relationship hard most of the time. I would have to write a 100 page book to explain my whole situation but I will just try sum it up for you. Her main issues are: She has bulimia which was real bad in high school and college but now 10 year later she has it under control pretty well. She has OCD very bad cleaning constantly which drives me nuts sometimes. She has bad depression as well as real bad body image. My wife has went to consuling several times but soon as she starts doing better she thinks she can handle it and quits going. Then within a few months we are back to the same old rut. NOW HERE IS ONE OF THE MAIN PROBLEM...we live way up north and it is a 4 hr drive to a concleer and they want her to come in 2x a week. Well how does anyone keep a job and meet 2 x a week when you have to take the whole day off to do it??? I dont know what do because if she is not at work she is either sleeping or cleaning. She says if she is sleeping she is not thinking about eating and cleaning help her stay busy so she is not eating. I will tell you she has gotten over the bingeing and purging for the most part but is really obsessive about food still. She wont hardly eat in front of people she knows which sucks because we can never go out with some of my friends for a couples dinner date type thing even at christmas dinner she will only eat a little then when one of our 250lb aunt says here try come cake or pie she says no I cant I am too fat but then the next sentence tell them they should have a piece:scratchhead: She has really no friends maybe 2 other than her sister because she will only friend someone who is bigger not just bigger than her but what I would consider a large lady. I think she thinks they make her look smaller IDK? I should mention that my wife is 5'8" size 8 dress and 36D. IMO she has n othing to hide acuallly I think she is damn hot but she dresses like she is 350lb alot of the time. Sex is usually once a week if I beg alot and if it was up to her 2x a year maybe but it is usually with her **** on which really sucks with all that hot body under there. Lately it seems she is more depressed and lazy I dont know why we both have good jobs with no money trouble. Another problem we have is we have thought about kids but she has had problems with fibroids in her uterus and plus all the meds she takes for her mental problems kids are not looking good for us. I dont even see how she can get off the prozac she was on 80mg trying to get off she started taking 60 then 40 but she is almost impossible to handle below 40mg. If we lived in a big city like chicago or new york this probably would be a lot easier but when you are in the middle of nowhere if feels like we are kinda on are own with this. She almost has to quit her job to try and fix these problems. I mentioned maybe there is a web cam type thing we could look for but she said no she doesnt like being on camera:mad: some times I get so mad I want to give up but an hour later I am back to thinking about how I can fix her. I have tried many trips to the caribbean but after a couple days she wants to come home. I just dont know what to try lift her spirits... Again sorry this seems like I am just rambleing but I have wanted to tell someone my story for so many years I cant tell it fast enough. Thanks in advance for any help or advice!

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