Wife not paying attention to our son.

We've been married for just over 5yrs, we have a 3.5 yr old boy. Lately my wife seems very self absorbed, it's as if she can't be bothered by our son or me wanting to spend time together. She's been doing this crossfit training program at our gym, she's been doing it for a year but in the last 2-3 months, she's been overly absorbed with it, to the neglect of our marriage, connecting with each other, and as well our son, who's been acting out against her. (not wanting mommy to read him stories, or come in the car to school, not listening to her, etc.) I've mentioned this to her and she takes it as me smothering her, not wanting her to have independence, I say, you're not independent, you have a 3.5yr old son who needs his mother and a marriage to care for. She doesn't seem to want to connect with me or our son. When she says "i'm here I'm present" I point out that she sits on the couch and doesn't give him undivided attention, she's on her phone. when she's home, she's not 'PRESENT' if you know what I mean. I ry to give her space but then she tells me I'm acting weird. Obviously it's difficult to hide that I'm feeling neglected and in a marriage where I feel alone. She doesn't seem to want to invest any time into our family, but invests tons of time in her crossfit routine, and herself. anybody else experience this, is it just a phase?

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