| I'm a woman and I need some male perspective on this situation - I've been married close to 3 years. When I was single there was a guy who made me believe he wanted a relationship with me, then sort of "disappeared" for a while, only to contact me out of the blue saying he had been moving and that's why he was out of contact (for 3 months - yea, ok). Anyway, he wanted a second chance and I met him for dinner, but realized there was really no chemistry there between us. He kept asking for another date, saying we were a great couple and he could just feel our "connection" (to which I thought to myself "you're the only feeling it then..."), I kept declining. Finally he disappeared again. He popped back up out of the blue almost a year later, saying how he thought about me alot. I told him I was engaged to be married and he said "bummer, we could have been great together". Fast forward nearly 3 years and he emails me yesterday asking "how's married life?" Really? I responded, because I wanted to see where this was going, "it's great. How have you been?" He told me a little about his work and such and asked what I'd been up to, I responded telling him a few details of adventures my husband and I have been on. He came back with "so... are you HAPPILY married?" What. The. F***? I didn't respond, just deleted the email string. This is my take on it - he's been dating numerous women these last few years and is in a "dry spell", so he's trolling through his little black book to see if anyone might be available for a romp with him. I'm interested in seeing the male thoughts on this. Thanks! | |||
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