Is it time to separate or is this normal?

I started dating my husband about 6 years ago when I was 23 after getting out of an abusive relationship. He was a breath of fresh air from my last relationship. We dated for 2 years, lived together for 1 year and then were engaged for 1 year and have now been married for 2 years. Our relationship started with passion only, then he slowly wanted more and I enjoyed the security of having him around so I went with it, next thing I know we are living together and he starts a new job and everything turned around. We stopped having sex for about 6 months, then would have sex maybe once a month if I initiated it. He proposed and I accepted because I felt like that was what I should be, I was at an age where I should be engaged. The whole year we were engaged and I planned the wedding I had second thoughts we rarely ( by rarely i mean once a month or every other month) had sex and sex is important to me. I brushed off my seconds thoughts as wedding day jitters telling myself what a good man he was and how lucky I was. Now 2 years of marriage later and I am wondering what the hell I am doing. Don't get me wrong my husband is a good man, he is kind, he has a good job and makes good money, takes care of me financially and is great on paper, but I don't have feelings of love for him, in fact he annoys me quite often. His job has him working out of town 3-5 days a week and my job keeps me at our home. We have no kids, obviously with the little sex we have. The question I have is are my feelings normal, do all women feel this way after being married, or is this something unique to me or women who should separate? I am not happy and not sure what to do. On the flip side my husband thinks everything is great and tells me he loves me all the time...apparently sex isn't important for him. We have had talks about the sex and he says he will change, but he doesn't. We have had talks about him getting a new job where he isn't out of town, but he never does.... So that's it I am confused....looking for advice....

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