Divorce?

Hi, am I acting crazy? My wife lost it a few months ago and told me she didn't love me and maybe we should split up. I told her to slow down and we haven't talked about it since, and she's been acting as if nothing is wrong. But now I'm thinking about it. Our kids are off to college next fall and marriage isn't fun anymore. I've always earned the money and mostly taken care of the kids. She has a "hobby" job which makes a small amount of money, but takes all her time and attention (ahead of me and even ahead of the kids). Now her mom has moved in with us temporarily (she'd like permanent), and she spends time with her but expects me to drive them places and cook meals etc. What am I getting out of this marriage? I'm not looking forward to another 25 years of this. I have several recently divorced friends who are much happier post marriage. (Unlike most other postings I've seen, sex isn't a problem. She willingly provides for my needs and seems mildly interested, but it feels incomplete.) Mark

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