So a little while ago my boyfriend confessed he lied to me about how many sexual partners he's had before me... he's slept with one other girl. He did try with another but um size got in the way. :$ He sees all his friends having one night stands and what not and admitted that part of him wonders why he's not doing that too. He feels conflicted because he loves me but he always thought he'd be a lot more experienced before settling down and getting married (he brought up that he has the desire to marry me... thinks I'm the one etc I feel the same way and I've been in three long relationships already - started young ;) so I don't feel like i haven't seen what else is out there). He wonders if only sleeping with two girls in his entire life will content him. He also feels very negatively about the fact I have slept with more people than he has says he has this immature desire to even it out. I am trying to understand this, but to me the best sex is loving sex and although he understands that theoretically, I'm worried he may decide he wants to take the gamble and see for himself. I've been very hurt in the past and this is kind of making me wonder if the best thing is to break up with before I get hurt again. What do you guys think? Would you be personally satisfied with two sexual partners in your lifetime? / Is it normal for him to have those kind of thoughts/ can those thoughts be overidden by an awesome relationship? | |||
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What will be stronger, his urge for sexual experience or our relationship?
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