| Is she just being a bitch or playing mindgames/trolling, or does she have any legitimate greivance? This in real need of interpretation from the female side. She's posting like in the manner of someone wronged in potential love, is my interpretation. She said that to my thread about love maybe not existing- 'Please crawl back under whatever rock you came out from. I know you're just trying to get a reaction from everyone so normally I would ignore you, but I take every opportunity to gloat about what a wonderful relationship I have and how much I am in love so I'd just like to let you know that you are wrong. Love does exist and I enjoy it every single day; you are simply too blind to see it and too cold hearted to feel it. ' She has explicitly admitting having experience of me IRL on the next thread when I mentioned I thought this anon poster knew me...but she's gone anon there too. Now, I have had accounts hacked, so tried to post that that could be a reason for my communications to be take the wrong way. There is a girl who I missed out on, which was something I really cared about. Now it may be, that that girl didn't give a toss, and this is someone else, it's quite believable that I was more invested in an acquaintance emotionally, but then the only reason that seems more unlikely, is because I don't know who else I could have potentially been close to, who I could be perceived as having rejected(even though I didn't intentionally), so the assumption I'm going on is that it is the girl I really cared about. But now I just spilled my feelings, I replied and said a load on my problems. Today I replied and I've even used her name, but I changed that-but using detail that makes sure that she woul d know who it is. Maybe she was a certain way because she couldnt come out and say anything because I hadn't stated who it was I cared about. But anyway, if after showing her she is so wrong about me being callous, explaining everything and telling her she is the one I had feelings for provokes more bitchy type stuff, I guess I can assume that it just isn't her. Or that it is, but she's now committed to somoene else and wants to make me suffer, because of what could have been. My view of this girl I could have wanted, was that she wasn't like this at all, and plus I don't think it was so much like her being rejected, especially with her probably having a partner at the time, even though she showed some interest(but still dont think she was invested it in like me, to get this upset)...so did I and never rejected her but there are subtle reaons like shyness why she might have thought I was cold and rejecting. Now, I don't think she would ever have seen love in it, although I did, because my view is that girls are generally much slower about these things, and don't read emotion as early as men. My view of heris that she was maybe not so emotionally involved. Although she did make a few approaches besides possibly having a partner, and there was a great connection I felt. But the trouble is if it isn't he, then it must be someone who knew me longer, who felt rejected and I literally have no clue who this could be. It can't be anyone. You'd have to literally go back to school, and I don't think that could be right. So what is going on, I need a female perspective. | |||
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