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A question about sexual honesty

Okay. I have a question.

I was looking through the forums - in particular questions related to men wanting/wishing to do certain sexual things with their spouse (like anal sex, or sexual facials etc) and they were unsure if their spouse would be interested.

A lot of the advice, from women, seems to be "go ahead and ask" she'll say yes or no. And it is implied that the "no" was simply a "huh, interesting, but no harm in asking." And then you'll know. Some women are curious even and would be interested in the request or just interested in the asking. But some women were clear that they would not want to be asked and the husband must be a little off.

So knowing all women and all relationships are different how does one figure out what is okay to ask and what isn't? I mean, I think guys (or this guy anyway) needs the confidence that it really is likely to be that simple - she is or is not interested. But I don't want it to be worse than that.

And by the way, I'm really asking about facials. I think I'd like to give one to her. Sorry if that is too crude. I honestly don't know if I would though. But I'd like her to consider it.




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