So basically I have very bad luck at attracting members of the opposite sex. In my teenage years and during first year of uni I was very shy and slow to approach the girls I liked, so that accounted for a lot of problems I had then, but as uni progressed I became much more confident, approached women at events / bars / clubs and got numbers and secured dates. Done the whole one night stand stuff and I've only had a couple of short relationships in the past but they have never lasted.
Problem is the people I have ever genuinely really liked have always rejected me (and we're talking 6 or more times now). Some of the dates I've been on have only remained the one date even though I felt like we were getting on really well - more often than not they don't text back afterwards or just plain reject me. I'm pretty sure it's my looks because I've fixed the confidence issue. I'm not the best looking by admission - I'm short for a guy, 5'6 and still prone to acne. Have addressed this in some respect over the last couple of years by hitting the gym and I have bulked up quite a bit which has given me more confidence, but I still always draw a blank when it comes to relationships, and it's not like I haven't been trying. I'm 23 and before I know it I'll be past the 'young' years.
Is it likely to be looks related, confidence, or just bad luck? Any advice would be appreciated :)
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