So I've been in a relationship for just over a year with a great guy.
When I initially got to know him, I came to know that he is good friends with an ex from about 2-3 years ago. This wasn't a problem at first, as I am good friends with one ex too.
But now I'm freaking out.
I was on his laptop, with his full knowledge and trying to locate photos of our recent holiday. On the same page, with all his other material, was a photo folder of his ex (and now good friend) with little to no clothing on. I'm pretty sure there was a video in there too.
I have no problem with people keeping photos of exes.
I do have a big problem with photos of naked exes, particularly if I have to see or speak to them regularly.
Their friendship also now worries me, as now I'm thinking he must still be sexually/romantically attached to her - why else would he still want to look at her naked? And how am I meant to be comfortable around someone who's naked on my boyfriend's laptop?
Help please.
Put the internet to work for you.
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