Hi all. We were living abroad as my husband was working there and we all moved back here this yr. My husband didn't have a job at first here but managed to get a job 3 months ago. We never had any debts before but now we are paying currently paying our credit card while staying at my father's house and we also now owe my father a lot of money. Anyways, we've been tog.for 9 yrs but married fo 8 and have 3 little girls,the youngest is only 13 mo.s. We had lots of fights over the yrs but he always asked us to work things out and usually he is very sweet and affectionate. This yr when we moved to my father's place, we had decided to lived in a separate room for 2 months as we kept on fighting a lot. We kept our distance for 2 months and we both agreed to eventually divorce whenwe could afford it. I realized last month that I still love him very much and we have 3 small children so why work thingsout while we're still living tog. At first he was hesitant becau se he didn't want us to fight. I told him to stop focusing on the past and to focus on the future. We've been trying to work things out fo about a month now with no fights but it's hurting me that he doesn't seem like he loves me so I told him that. He said that he loves me but he's not in love with me and he wants to be with someone who he's in love with. It hurts me very bad because I've been doing lots of sweet things for him but nothing in return. It also hurts me that he doesn't appreciate I that I'm actually willing to give this another go not just for us but for our kids. I just want to be happy. Now he said that he really loves me very much and to forget what he said and that he just wants to be happy as well. It's not like I am unattractive. I am very attractive and I get it a lot from people asking me if my children are mine because I look very young nd very slim. I feel like he doesn't appreciate me. I am really trying for us to be closer but he seems frigid all t he time but he tells me that he really loves me. And I asked him if we should celebrate our anniversary coming up next wk and he said yes definitely. I am confused. I don't know what else to do. I already cried while talking to him l-ots of times about this. Is there any chance to work this out?
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