I'm posting here because I want to be anonymous.
I have this friend called Anna (fake name obviously) we met a few weeks after the start of uni and spent lots of time together. I was unlucky with flatmates this year so had to develop my own social circle from scratch. She also hates her flatmates therefore we agreed to live together next year. Then we met another girl whom we later invited to live with us. Then she kept inviting other people that aren't quite my friends (she met one of them literally four days ago!) but when I told her I would also ask Kate from my halls she was like "oh I don't know I won't have enough time to get to know her". Right now she's being very hypocritical, she doesn't trust my friend that I've known since the start of uni but yet she feels confident to invite a girl she just met!
Last night we went out together with Anna, Kate, Kate's friend and the girl Anna just met. The whole night Anna was too engaged in conversation with the new girl and barely attempted to talk to Kate or her friend. Then she told me Kate appeared to be unsociable and judged her based on her friend. Also in general I'm starting to get annoyed by her because keeps judging my choices (like negative comments on my crushes, new haircut or a dress I just bought) and I find her really superficial at times because of how she forms a first impression on people just because of their looks. She sometimes comes off as conceited as well saying stuff like I rejected so many guys I know I'm beautiful :)))) I sometimes feel like she wouldn't want to be friends with me if I was ugly or fat.
After this long rant I can still say I like her because of how close we're grown into each other in such a small time frame and we even shared some of our secrets. She is a fun person to hang out with, I don't mean to end my friendship with her. I'm just concerned what if we will have problems next year living together because she started to get on my nerves just 2 months after the start of uni! Also, how am I going to tell Kate that my friends don't want to live with her without hurting her feelings? I don't want her to think she made a bad impression - it's just that Anna is overly picky.
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