Hi everybody. First post on this site and admittedly I have not spent a lot of time reading. Not even sure if I'm posting to the right forum - I'm not "coping" with infidelity but suspecting one. Please let me know if I should move this elsewhere.
My issue is: recently (last couple of weeks) I gave noticed an increased amount of physical contact between my wife (32) and a friend. Nothing really inappropriate - hugs when greeting, he always offers his hand on stairs, talks to her with his palm on her elbow, etc. My wife never initiates it, but does not avoid it either. I discussed this with her last week and she thought there is nothing about it and she is just( friendly to my friend. Promised to not allow this to happen anymore. Also had a word with Jim (friend), he's apologised and I thought the case is closed until yesterday.
Jim, some other friends and I were waiting for my wife to get back from her dancing class pp (hobby and fitness) to go out , she was getting late. I'm in the corner turning the home entertainment on. Mistakenly I keyed in a playlist with her dancing tunes. She enters the room at the same time, announces that she needs the shower and she'll be ready, hears the music, playfully picks up Jim from the sofa and makes that dancing move with him. Than she sees me in the corner and I can tell she feels awkward. Was tense for the whole night and since then. So far hadn't talked to her or Jim about this.
Please guide me - am I paranoid or should I somehow act further? Don't want to taint am otherwise great marriage but not feeling comfortable about this time all.
Thoughts? Thank you.
My issue is: recently (last couple of weeks) I gave noticed an increased amount of physical contact between my wife (32) and a friend. Nothing really inappropriate - hugs when greeting, he always offers his hand on stairs, talks to her with his palm on her elbow, etc. My wife never initiates it, but does not avoid it either. I discussed this with her last week and she thought there is nothing about it and she is just( friendly to my friend. Promised to not allow this to happen anymore. Also had a word with Jim (friend), he's apologised and I thought the case is closed until yesterday.
Jim, some other friends and I were waiting for my wife to get back from her dancing class pp (hobby and fitness) to go out , she was getting late. I'm in the corner turning the home entertainment on. Mistakenly I keyed in a playlist with her dancing tunes. She enters the room at the same time, announces that she needs the shower and she'll be ready, hears the music, playfully picks up Jim from the sofa and makes that dancing move with him. Than she sees me in the corner and I can tell she feels awkward. Was tense for the whole night and since then. So far hadn't talked to her or Jim about this.
Please guide me - am I paranoid or should I somehow act further? Don't want to taint am otherwise great marriage but not feeling comfortable about this time all.
Thoughts? Thank you.
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