Is any of you guys married to an insomniac spouse who keeps you up all night?
How do you cope? My husband thinks that medication will knock him out, somebody might invade our home and hubby won't be able to fight him.
I know that this is very unlike and so does hubby (at least he says so) but the tought that there is a slight possibility it MIGHT happen is so bad for him.... I do not understand it either.
In his world-view a 99% chance that something bad happens is just as bad as a 0,0001% chance of it happening.
He is also addicted to caffeine and what is worse he is LYING. We talked about his caffeine addiction, he said he was going to reduce his consume of coffee, caffeinated chocolate and he did and I was so happy...
... and he started chewing a certain brand of gum. I tought that was okay, until I realized that there is caffeinated chewing gum.
I confronted him, first he was joking and then he blamed it all on me saying that everybody must know there is energy gum and everybody knows that brand is caffeinated.
I did not.
Then he tried to be real sweet and was smiling and saying "Oh, don't be mad at me".
:mad:
I don't want to argue with him all the time. Does it make sense to talk about this topic again or no?
How do you cope? My husband thinks that medication will knock him out, somebody might invade our home and hubby won't be able to fight him.
I know that this is very unlike and so does hubby (at least he says so) but the tought that there is a slight possibility it MIGHT happen is so bad for him.... I do not understand it either.
In his world-view a 99% chance that something bad happens is just as bad as a 0,0001% chance of it happening.
He is also addicted to caffeine and what is worse he is LYING. We talked about his caffeine addiction, he said he was going to reduce his consume of coffee, caffeinated chocolate and he did and I was so happy...
... and he started chewing a certain brand of gum. I tought that was okay, until I realized that there is caffeinated chewing gum.
I confronted him, first he was joking and then he blamed it all on me saying that everybody must know there is energy gum and everybody knows that brand is caffeinated.
I did not.
Then he tried to be real sweet and was smiling and saying "Oh, don't be mad at me".
:mad:
I don't want to argue with him all the time. Does it make sense to talk about this topic again or no?
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