There's this guy.... Who I am close to, I honestly thought he liked me. He said he did anyways and he made me feel like I could trust him. We had sex, we spend a lot of time together. You could basically call it a relationship.
There was this girl who he was 'friends' with and something happened between them when me and him first started speaking to each other. I said to him that I didn't want to take things any further if he was still sleeping with her and he told me he'd stop speaking to her and that he didn't really like her. I didn't mind him being friends with her I didn't say he had to stop speaking to her or being friends with her but he said to me that she's a bit ''strange'' and he didn't want to see her anymore anyways. Whatever he was doing I just told him to be honest with me about it. Like I said the only way I will get annoyed is if he's dishonest with me and I find out.
I found out tonight, I don't really want to say how I found out but I did and I know that it's the truth, about 30 minutes ago that actually they are very close, they speak everyday, they must meet up on the sly and they are going ''clubbing'' together at the weekend. I feel really really dumb and a little heartbroken if I'm honest. If there was nothing in this then why wouldn't he just tell me that he's good friends with her?. I didn't tell him to dump her as a friend I just said that if he's sleeping with her then I don't want to be with him and why would he lie to me saying he's going out on a 'lads' night at the weekend when really he's going out with her clubbing?.
I just messaged him saying ''Thank you for telling me the truth'' and I probably wont get a reply now until tomorrow. The reply will probably go along the lines of ''what haven't I been honest with you about?''. I don't know what to say to him when he replies?
Am I overreacting or is he just a complete idiot.
I really cannot stand liars, it makes all those feelings I felt for him dissapear.
Put the internet to work for you.
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