LD feeling attacked at home

and on TAM

Hi all I am new. Love, Love this site. Enjoy all the input.

Question or maybe just a rant. Recently I have read a lot of threads about the LD spouse. It seems to me we are attacked by the HD spouse because of our drive.

I have read one thread call why not bend for a friend...i think that was what it is called. (but if you just have sex for the HD they start complaing that I want to be desired) wth?

So a little about me. I really like sex. I like all positions, I like oral and have even tried anal. I just do not like to have sex every day. My desire is 1x a week and I am fine. If we have a good session, both getting out needs met my tank is full.

My spouse is HD he can go everyday. He has the same complaint that most people on TAM does. Why are LD proscuted because we have a low drive.

I have started initiating and even trying to compromise with 2-3 times a week, just not every day.

What more can we LDers do.?

Its is not that we do not love our spouses, we just dont need as much sex as you do.

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