Been relationship official with this guy for two weeks and there have been a few concerns. I want to address this and I haven't been silent and accepted bad treatment but I want to hammer it home so he can see how I feel. I'm just worried really.
1)He told me that he'd had a girlfriend in the past who'd walk out on him the first time they had sex, because he wasn't that good. Because of that, I've been patient with my boyfriend in trying to make him more comfortable, which has made him more caring about my pleasure. However last night, he got angry with me because he couldn't get me off in 15-20 minutes, said that was too much time etc. I said "well I'm not going to lie to you about whether I get off". He turned away from me, left me upset and then said to me "I'm just being an *******" and that "I'm ridiculous". I told him that wasn't cool.
2)He was playing guitar for me and I picked up the guitar myself, I accidentally moved it as he moved his head forward, accidentally hitting his eye. He shouted out "****ing bitch" before explaining it was bro talk and nothing to do with me...but hmm
3)It's not like he isn't interested in me but we have some awkward silences and I feel that I have to pick up the conversation. He doesn't ask me nothing about my life, but doesn't ask me as much as I'd want him to.
4)Yesterday I was sitting in room with him and he was looking through phone saying "Oh I'll see how many girls' numbers I have on my phone before reading them out and saying which girls were hot etc". Hmm what was his point?
Maybe he is acting awful because he doesn't want a relationship as much as he says he does, or he is taking me for a ride. I hope not because I'd be embarrassed and hurt that he's using me :/
1)He told me that he'd had a girlfriend in the past who'd walk out on him the first time they had sex, because he wasn't that good. Because of that, I've been patient with my boyfriend in trying to make him more comfortable, which has made him more caring about my pleasure. However last night, he got angry with me because he couldn't get me off in 15-20 minutes, said that was too much time etc. I said "well I'm not going to lie to you about whether I get off". He turned away from me, left me upset and then said to me "I'm just being an *******" and that "I'm ridiculous". I told him that wasn't cool.
2)He was playing guitar for me and I picked up the guitar myself, I accidentally moved it as he moved his head forward, accidentally hitting his eye. He shouted out "****ing bitch" before explaining it was bro talk and nothing to do with me...but hmm
3)It's not like he isn't interested in me but we have some awkward silences and I feel that I have to pick up the conversation. He doesn't ask me nothing about my life, but doesn't ask me as much as I'd want him to.
4)Yesterday I was sitting in room with him and he was looking through phone saying "Oh I'll see how many girls' numbers I have on my phone before reading them out and saying which girls were hot etc". Hmm what was his point?
Maybe he is acting awful because he doesn't want a relationship as much as he says he does, or he is taking me for a ride. I hope not because I'd be embarrassed and hurt that he's using me :/
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