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At what point should I ask if she is annoyed at me...?
If I ever think a girl is annoyed at me, should I ask? Or should I back away from her and wait for her to come back to me? We're good friends, but recently she's shown utter disinterest for no apparent reason - I don't believe I've done anything to upset her.
I tried texting her to start a conversation (we used to text a lot) but she answers with the predictable neglectful sort of replies which basically follow the lines of "I'm not interested but I won't say it...", I've been tempted to tell her that it's okay if she doesn't want to talk right now, but just say it - however I haven't brought myself to do this.
Is it worth asking her if she is annoyed at me? Or would that be a bad move? Because I value our friendship very much so, and I am afraid that if I ask her if she's annoyed at me, it might generate a negative outcome.
I tried texting her to start a conversation (we used to text a lot) but she answers with the predictable neglectful sort of replies which basically follow the lines of "I'm not interested but I won't say it...", I've been tempted to tell her that it's okay if she doesn't want to talk right now, but just say it - however I haven't brought myself to do this.
Is it worth asking her if she is annoyed at me? Or would that be a bad move? Because I value our friendship very much so, and I am afraid that if I ask her if she's annoyed at me, it might generate a negative outcome.
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Oldest & youngest age partner you've dated or slept with?
As the title says really. I've seen some posts about how old or young people WOULD date, but what are your ACTUAL experiences, i.e. the oldest and youngest you've dated or slept with.
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Lost 1k at the bookies
So yeah lost 4000 after making 3000.
I started chasing my losses after going on a never ending losing streak.
It's totally ruined my Christmas as I am broke now, what should I do?
I started chasing my losses after going on a never ending losing streak.
It's totally ruined my Christmas as I am broke now, what should I do?
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My relationship is fizzling out...emotional guy here.
Hey all,
I have been with my girlfriend for 16/17 months and to be brutally honest we were complete opposites. We have so many differences, (morally, religiously and sexually) despite this we have maintained our relationship so far.
As of lately I have noticed that my girlfriend is less and less responsive with talking to me over Facebook (which I know to some people seems kind of odd), but prior to the past 3 months or so she was quite attentive she wasn't giving me one word/line answers, she was engaging, she was asking me what I was up to etc.
Now she does none of this, and it bothers me. Because I feel something isn't right, part of me feels frustrated because I just want to feel some damn affection from her, because I give her loads of affection and it isn't returned.
She has never really been an over the top kind of soppy girl. Partly, due to her nature and upbringing, but also was subject to abuse when younger. I can understand that this may be the cause of it. But for the past few months, during arguments she has said I am like an emotional girl, I am clingy and also that I need to be a man. Which hurts tremendously. At the moment I am going through the motions right now.
Tonight we spoke briefly on FB, because I was fed up of her lackadaisical attitude towards conversing with me. Yes, understandably she is tired, since she holds down a demanding job, and is busy. But if you love someone don't you make the effort to be attentive?
I questioned her as to why she is like this, to which, I must have annoyed her, and she logged out, told me she was going to sleep.
We only see each other twice a week anyways, so its not like my attitude is one of a clingy teenager. I just want to feel loved, and if she doesn't love me she needs to tell me.
TL;DR
1. Girlfriend has been talking to me less and less, not being attentive when conversing online, whereas before she used to do.
2. When she comes round to my house we usually do the same thing, due to her busy lifestyle (job), so we have little time to do diverse stuff.
3. She doesn't tell me she loves me anymore.
4. She tells me "We're fine", despite me having this feeling that she just tells me that.
5. I remember her telling me early on that she didn't find me all that attractive, but loved me. Now I just feel it couldn't be more truer now.
6. I feel I need to get to the bottom of this, because she is being evasive, and doesn't answer my questions directly, because I asked her if she loved me, she didn't say anything, but gave a brief response.
What do I do here?
I have been with my girlfriend for 16/17 months and to be brutally honest we were complete opposites. We have so many differences, (morally, religiously and sexually) despite this we have maintained our relationship so far.
As of lately I have noticed that my girlfriend is less and less responsive with talking to me over Facebook (which I know to some people seems kind of odd), but prior to the past 3 months or so she was quite attentive she wasn't giving me one word/line answers, she was engaging, she was asking me what I was up to etc.
Now she does none of this, and it bothers me. Because I feel something isn't right, part of me feels frustrated because I just want to feel some damn affection from her, because I give her loads of affection and it isn't returned.
She has never really been an over the top kind of soppy girl. Partly, due to her nature and upbringing, but also was subject to abuse when younger. I can understand that this may be the cause of it. But for the past few months, during arguments she has said I am like an emotional girl, I am clingy and also that I need to be a man. Which hurts tremendously. At the moment I am going through the motions right now.
Tonight we spoke briefly on FB, because I was fed up of her lackadaisical attitude towards conversing with me. Yes, understandably she is tired, since she holds down a demanding job, and is busy. But if you love someone don't you make the effort to be attentive?
I questioned her as to why she is like this, to which, I must have annoyed her, and she logged out, told me she was going to sleep.
We only see each other twice a week anyways, so its not like my attitude is one of a clingy teenager. I just want to feel loved, and if she doesn't love me she needs to tell me.
TL;DR
1. Girlfriend has been talking to me less and less, not being attentive when conversing online, whereas before she used to do.
2. When she comes round to my house we usually do the same thing, due to her busy lifestyle (job), so we have little time to do diverse stuff.
3. She doesn't tell me she loves me anymore.
4. She tells me "We're fine", despite me having this feeling that she just tells me that.
5. I remember her telling me early on that she didn't find me all that attractive, but loved me. Now I just feel it couldn't be more truer now.
6. I feel I need to get to the bottom of this, because she is being evasive, and doesn't answer my questions directly, because I asked her if she loved me, she didn't say anything, but gave a brief response.
What do I do here?
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How to forget about the guy at work?
I've been working over the christmas period as a temp with this guy and I've fallen in love or lust over him whatever, I can't stop thinking about him he's so perfect. He's funny, cute, kind, confident, smart etc. BUT I won't ever see him again because our work has ended together.
I felt like this about someone a couple of months ago and I ended up watching the notebook and crying all of the time imagining we were in the film (I know so pathetic but I get really emotional when I find a guy like this).
What do I do, try to forget about him or get butterflies and day dream about him even though it's heart breaking that I will never see him again?
Also he is out of my league and stuff for me to date him :(
Share your 'love/lust' experiences if you want
Really sad thread I know, sorrrrry
I felt like this about someone a couple of months ago and I ended up watching the notebook and crying all of the time imagining we were in the film (I know so pathetic but I get really emotional when I find a guy like this).
What do I do, try to forget about him or get butterflies and day dream about him even though it's heart breaking that I will never see him again?
Also he is out of my league and stuff for me to date him :(
Share your 'love/lust' experiences if you want
Really sad thread I know, sorrrrry
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How to have a man day with my mums bf?
Hi, I want to have a mans day with my mums bf and talk about some stuff. Should I like ask him to see a movie what should I do?? We will prob be talking about really personal things so it needs to be a relaxed atmosphere!
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Girlfriend an Instagram addict.
I'm starting to think that whenever I suggest something to girlfriend she decides on the activity based on if she can instagram it. I make jokes about her beig addicted to it and she just laughs.
I'm a pretty private person rarely post on Facebook and all that yet she posts pics of pretty much most things we do.
Would it be wrong of me to tell her to cut it out why does everyone need to know our business should just be between us 2
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I'm a pretty private person rarely post on Facebook and all that yet she posts pics of pretty much most things we do.
Would it be wrong of me to tell her to cut it out why does everyone need to know our business should just be between us 2
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Should I feel guilty?
I basically have a crush on the girl my friend (and housemate) is in love with. This girl also lives with us. The bad thing is that we're going on a date soon, and she's rejected him. I've talked to him about my crush before because I thought I'd have no luck with her, but I never named her. When she asked me out I tweeted how I was happy etc. and then he asked why I was happy and I just replied 'My crush', so he knows that I might have a date. I then expressed feelings of doubt over going out with my crush and then he said they'd be stupid to say no to me, or something like that. I've asked two of my housemates about whether I should feel guilty and they said that he'd feel betrayed if he ever found out :/ For some reason I don't think that I should feel guilty, because she rejected him and he's still clung onto her. She even said he was clingy. He knows he has no chance with her as well, because she's lesbian. So, should I feel guilty about going on a date with her?
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Asking someone out- how to react?
Hey, I'm gonna do something I've never done before tomorrow, and ask someone out.
Now we are both going to this event, and will will get some 1-on-1 time, but it won't be long. I thought about waiting for the perfect moment at the end, asking her and then leaving. However I might not get her on her own then, so there's no point waiting for the right moment, otherwise I will never do it.
So if halfway through, or at the beginning I get my opportunity, how do I react to her saying yes*?
I can't leave, so how do I keep it cool and not be awkward?
Also is it ok to be a little bit shy/awkward when asking someone out (when you have a good idea neither person likes you)?
*I'm not entertaining the thought of her saying no.
If she says no, I have no idea how to react, but I'm only aiming for the yes.
Now we are both going to this event, and will will get some 1-on-1 time, but it won't be long. I thought about waiting for the perfect moment at the end, asking her and then leaving. However I might not get her on her own then, so there's no point waiting for the right moment, otherwise I will never do it.
So if halfway through, or at the beginning I get my opportunity, how do I react to her saying yes*?
I can't leave, so how do I keep it cool and not be awkward?
Also is it ok to be a little bit shy/awkward when asking someone out (when you have a good idea neither person likes you)?
*I'm not entertaining the thought of her saying no.
If she says no, I have no idea how to react, but I'm only aiming for the yes.
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Always worrying if people like me or not
Does anyone ever feel like this?
I always feel like people don't like me for some reason and I really need to feel like people do or it gets me down.
I used to have a close group of friends at school but since we went to Uni I've lost touch with them over the years and am only left with one or two close friends from school.
I never really made friends with people during my undergraduate degree - I met people and got on with them when I was at Uni but never saw them outside of Uni.
I'm now on a teacher training course and I really like a lot of the people on my course, I've seen a few of them outside of Uni and the other week we all went on a Christmas night out which was great.
I always feel like I have to make loads of effort to see any of them though - if I didn't text them to say do you want to go for a drink or to eat one night I know they wouldn't text me.
I worry about stupid things like we have a Facebook group between us and if I post something and hardly anyone 'likes it' whereas ten of them will like someone else's post on the group I feel like the people who haven't liked mine deliberately did it because they don't like me! It sounds really pathetic as I type this but that's just how I feel and it gets me down sometimes.
I guess it all boils down to loneliness. My girlfriend recently split up with me after several years together and while sometimes I think it's actually a good thing because I can focus on this busy year of work, some nights I just feel utterly empty and think is anything worth it.
I'm one of these people that loves to talk about my emotions but I think to myself who can I talk to and there's literally no one really. I just hate feeling so dejected and lonely sometimes. I don't understand why I have to make the effort to speak to people on my course outside of Uni, it would be nice if one of them could give me a text some time but it wouldn't happen.
I have an amazing family and couldn't ask for more from my home life. Maybe it's just because I've been so busy on my school placement and now I'm finished for the Christmas break I'm actually a little bored and that's when I start thinking all these things.
I always feel like people don't like me for some reason and I really need to feel like people do or it gets me down.
I used to have a close group of friends at school but since we went to Uni I've lost touch with them over the years and am only left with one or two close friends from school.
I never really made friends with people during my undergraduate degree - I met people and got on with them when I was at Uni but never saw them outside of Uni.
I'm now on a teacher training course and I really like a lot of the people on my course, I've seen a few of them outside of Uni and the other week we all went on a Christmas night out which was great.
I always feel like I have to make loads of effort to see any of them though - if I didn't text them to say do you want to go for a drink or to eat one night I know they wouldn't text me.
I worry about stupid things like we have a Facebook group between us and if I post something and hardly anyone 'likes it' whereas ten of them will like someone else's post on the group I feel like the people who haven't liked mine deliberately did it because they don't like me! It sounds really pathetic as I type this but that's just how I feel and it gets me down sometimes.
I guess it all boils down to loneliness. My girlfriend recently split up with me after several years together and while sometimes I think it's actually a good thing because I can focus on this busy year of work, some nights I just feel utterly empty and think is anything worth it.
I'm one of these people that loves to talk about my emotions but I think to myself who can I talk to and there's literally no one really. I just hate feeling so dejected and lonely sometimes. I don't understand why I have to make the effort to speak to people on my course outside of Uni, it would be nice if one of them could give me a text some time but it wouldn't happen.
I have an amazing family and couldn't ask for more from my home life. Maybe it's just because I've been so busy on my school placement and now I'm finished for the Christmas break I'm actually a little bored and that's when I start thinking all these things.
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Feeling hopeless...
Basically, I really, really want a girlfriend. (I'm a girl.) But I have no idea how to find one! I know a grand total of two non-straight girls, neither of whom I'm into. There are no LGBT groups for under 18s within an hour's drive of where I live. I just feel trapped! I'm surrounded by beautiful girls, none of whom I can date. It's like living in a chocolate shop and being lactose intolerant...and it's really upsetting me more than it should, because I'm already insecure and unhappy about myself and the more time I spend unable to meet anyone, the more I convince myself that nobody would want to date me anyway, and that won't help anything! I don't want to become a desperate mess, but I hate the lack of options I have.
If anyone could give me any advice, or at least say they're in the same position, it would just be so comforting...
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If anyone could give me any advice, or at least say they're in the same position, it would just be so comforting...
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Possibly Meeting someone from here
As the title says any tips other than meeting in a public place? example should i suggest they get a hotel room if they wanna stay the night etc.
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shocked
my wife of 34 yrs. has been fb her old boyfriend she had before me so you can see how many yrs. its been. i had a little problem jealousy issue at first when he was added but he seemed like a ok guy and still think that, so anyway this has escalated to texting and then my wife called him and has been talking on and off for a yr. i find out they both finally agreed it was wrong and wife has promised me it will not happen anymore. she confessed to me this after i found fb obsession with going to his page or messaging not sure which. i ask about phone and she said she didn't want to be on her death bed and confess this as i would hate her forever. she says she loves me and would never leave me and doesn't want him also only talked about family etc. never anything else really. Im shocked and really hurt as you can imagine to my very core. this isn't something she has ever done before that i know of. Im now scared, not trusting and all the things that go with finding this out. how can i stop my pain and forgive and make our marriage work dang its been our whole lifes
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