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Where do I stand?

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Where do I stand?

So, I've had a major crush on this guy for a year. He's quite reserved so doesn't have loads of friends but enjoys my company. Last year we were spending loads of time together, at the cinema, grabbing drinks etc just the two of us and I thought he liked me too. Then I found out he has a girlfriend who he'd failed to ever mention... :( since then, however, they have broken up.[/COLOR][COLOR=rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.701961)]
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[COLOR=rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.701961)]Before Christmas we were seeing each other most days and he even invited me over for drinks at his ridiculously late at night meaning I ended up staying over and sharing a bed with him, more than once, and he kissed me. [/COLOR]
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[COLOR=rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.701961)]But since then its been the holidays at uni and we live really far apart so didnt see each other but stayed in contact. Arriving back at uni I had exams, but he still came to say hi and distract me for a bit most days, but now he has exams. I havent seen him properly since we've been back, tried inviting him to meet up but he just pretended he hadnt seen my invite and carried on our normal conversation...[/COLOR]
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[COLOR=rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.701961)]I just want to know where people think I stand because I still reeeeally like him, but its starting to feel a lot like I'm wasting my time :([/COLOR]

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Mess up with girls

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Mess up with girls

Hi,

A bit of background. I had health problems through school which caused me to go 55% deaf. I struggled with social aspects and took a step back from everything. It's pretty difficult to interact when you can't hear. As a result I have no friends so I will consider myself socially behind.

Since university, jobs and social clubs, I've managed to gain some of the missing skills being forced into situations I wouldn't normally put myself in and now I wear hearing aids, I have more confidence and am catching up on my social skills.

I am part of a social club and I get a long with the guys there very well; I have met a lot of acquaintances. Although I don't do so well with the girls. They have somehow :confused: figured out I don't like to hug. I've never said I don't like it so they must of figured out because I don't launch into hug mode on greeting but in my head I'm equally not going to hug every girl I meet. What happens if I do and they don't like that and think it is very forward and get offended. Although I'm not keen on hugging either I over think it. It ends up to be an awkward mess :$

There was also a situation where we worked in groups and a group member would of had to invade your personal space. It was a girl. A girl that I really liked too. She said oh sorry I'm a bit close I won't ... and I said ok. Any other normal guy would of loved it and said ok. Although I'm more curious how she along with others figured out I might not like it.

Where am I going wrong am I giving off bad body language? I don't want to be like hugging and kissing every girl; well I do really I do but I don't want to be perceived as trying to hit on or flirting.


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How to break up with him over text

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How to break up with him over text

Basically I'm not interested in this guy anymore, we've only met up twice and we hadn't spoken in a week and then he texts saying when can we meet up again? I don't want to hurt his feelings but I don't want to meet him again what shall I say in the text! Please hellpppp!!!


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Indifference is the worst thing ever

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Indifference is the worst thing ever

When someone is basically indifferent to your existence. Especially when you're emotionally invested in them.

I'd even prefer it if she was upset with me...

*sigh*

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What is wrong with me!!

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What is wrong with me!!

Seriously why are boys only wanting pics from me when at first they seem so genuine calling me princess and beautiful for then just to get **** outta me then deletes me!!!
Am I really that ugly!


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Are soul mates real?

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Are soul mates real?

Well as the titles says, are soul mates real?

I ask all that reads this because I feel like I incomplete, my life feels like a very big game of hide and seek because I feel like my whole purpose in life is to find my "other half", the half which completes me as edgy as that sounds.

I know others might feel the same way, I think its to do with humans being social beings but is there anyone else here who feels like they are playing the game?

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I'm bicurious and confused.com

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I'm bicurious and confused.com

I recently started to like girls and have kissed a few but they always dnt want to take it further than that. It's so confusing because I feel sensitive about this subject and feel every time I make a move the other person is like no we should stop because they are straight. 😞 maybe I can only fantasise about it because my efforts are going to waste, my question therefore is
Are girls playing the shy card ? and is anyone else out there who feels this way?


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7 things guy find attractive in girls.

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7 things guy find attractive in girls.

What are your top seven?

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Ladies, how much have you researched into the male psychology before..

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Ladies, how much have you researched into the male psychology before..

How much have you really read into the male psychology before getting into a long term relationship?

So I've been looking to get married soon, I've not really had proper relationships in the past. In order to be two steps ahead, I am actively reading into the male psychology and what makes us different. I've watched a couple of scientific documentaries and read quite a few articles on how men think.

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Some really, seriously weird songs to enjoy

Dutch, American, Australian and more. My taste in weird/bizarre music is... well, it just is!:D

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The above two are from Jan Terri.

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I think the blonde is cute.;)

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Should I ask her out...?

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Should I ask her out...?

There's a girl in my college that I got to know last summer. We became really good friends and rumours quickly came out that she liked me. I really liked her too but we never got together because we're both really shy and one of her really close family members recently passed away and she became really depressed. I kept trying to be a good friend and by New Years everybody was talking about when/if we were going to get together because it was blatantly obvious that we were spending a lot of time together and we were literally always texting each other.

And then suddenly, while I was away over New Years, one of our close friends texted me to tell me that she didn't like me. We texted each other about it and decided that we didn't want any of the awkwardness but wanted to still be really good friends.

But during the past month though, she's been getting closer than ever to me, and rumours have started to circulate that she's changed her mind. We spend almost every free lesson together and she's started talking about prom and going away and really personal stuff... But I'm not 100% certain that she has actually changed her mind, and I feel that asking her out would just make the whole situation awkward.

I want us to get together more than anything though, any advice? :(

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He doesn't care!

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He doesn't care!

Hi

I have been with a guy for a while, he is 23. Two weeks ago my Grandma died, I am pretty gutted at the fact my Granny died as I was really close to her and she was a big part of my life.

The thing is since this happened I'm starting to doubt if the guy I'm seeing cares about me as much as he has said in the past he does. When it happened and I told him he was pretty sympathetic about it but lately he's been upsetting me and making me feel worse.

When I was at her funeral after party thing (which he knew about) he was constantly texting me, even though I wasn't replying, he was texting me telling me how horny he was, then when I replied with ''I'm at my Grannies funeral!!!!!'' I got a reply saying ''How long do you think you are going to be, come over after?'', so I turned my phone off.

I didn't speak to him for a couple of days then he text me we had some small talk and he asked me how I was feeling, I said I was still feeling quite low and he said to me ''You need to cheer up!!!!''. At that point i just didn't bother to text him back and I haven't since despite him trying to contact me.

I'm sad and a little confused about what to do, he's my boyfriend and yeah I'm confused TSR.

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The rise of Single Asian males?

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The rise of Single Asian males?

Has any females noticed the notion of single asians males especially in the UK, why do you think the reason is for this>?

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Developing feelings for another girl who lives abroad

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Developing feelings for another girl who lives abroad

So I met thia girl online. Shes realy cool and from france, and the first time we skyped we were very flirty with each other

And ive started to get a bit of a crush on her. Weve skyped a few times since but i feel there wasnt much chemistry as before, even though we spoke for a while

When weve talked about meeting she seems really up for it

The problem is , i feel like im the one who initiates everything and i hate the idea of being to clingy..

Im tempted to leave it a few days and hopefully she will make the first m

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Awkward trigger moments in public

It happened to me today. Sometimes I can handle a trigger better than others.

Today while watching a movie with my sister in law, my WH and my kids, an affair scene unexpectedly popped up. I triggered. Worst part is that I was sitting too far from the doorway to leave the room so I just kept my head down and pretended I was on my phone and not paying much attention. No idea what, if anything, went through the WH's mind. :mad:

Ugh..

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