Wife won't understand No Contact to my abusive mom

I grew up under some nasty conditions caused by my rageaholic, narcissist mother. I've been No Contact for about 15 years. I can understand why this puzzles my wife, but every time I hit some depression of any kind she always thinks I need to forgive and reconnect.

It's not that rare a problem but less understandable than CSA. Any advice to help me help her understand?

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